10 Tips for a Successful First Date
So, you've got a first date coming up.
Congratulations!
Or condolences, depending on how you feel about dating. But regardless of your stance on romance, there are a few things you can do to make sure that first date goes off without a hitch.
Here are our top 10 tips for a successful first date, delivered with a healthy dose of honesty:
Don't Be Late - Seriously, don't be that person. If you're running late, call or text your date and let them know. And if you're really cutting it close, consider sending a gift basket to their office as an apology. Just kidding, but seriously, don't be late.
Dress to Impress - You don't have to wear a ball gown or a tuxedo (unless you're going to the opera, in which case, go for it), but do put some effort into your appearance. Make sure your clothes are clean and wrinkle-free, your hair is neat, and your breath doesn't smell like you've been eating garlic for a week.
Choose the Right Venue - Pick a place that's conducive to conversation, but not so quiet that you can hear a pin drop. And if you're not sure what your date likes, ask them! It's a great way to show that you're thoughtful and considerate.
Be Yourself - This may sound like a cliche, but it's true. Don't pretend to be someone you're not just to impress your date. Eventually, the real you will come out, and if your date doesn't like it, then they're not the right person for you.
Put Your Phone Away - This should go without saying, but put your phone on silent and resist the urge to check it every five minutes. Nothing kills a conversation faster than someone who's more interested in their Instagram feed than their date.
Ask Questions - Show your date that you're interested in getting to know them by asking questions about their life, hobbies, and interests. And don't just ask yes or no questions - ask open-ended questions that allow for a more detailed answer.
Listen - This is just as important as asking questions. Really listen to what your date is saying and respond thoughtfully. It's a great way to show that you're engaged and interested.
Don't Talk About Your Ex - This is a first date no-no. Save the ex-talk for later, when you're sure that you and your date have a future together.
Don't Overindulge - Whether it's food or alcohol, don't overdo it. You don't want to be the person who ends up passed out in the bathroom or throwing up in the street.
End on a High Note - Even if the date didn't go as well as you'd hoped, end it on a positive note. Thank your date for their time, close with a nice compliment, and wish them well.
So there you have it - our top 10 tips for a successful first date. Follow these guidelines, and you'll be well on your way to a second date (or not, but at least you'll have done your best). Good luck out there!
